The Reaction To Twitter Movement About Masculinity Is Exactly Why It’s So Important
Twitter is known for starting debates and controversy with its hashtags. A recent hashtag was created to attack the concept of masculinity in the modern world. The hashtag #MasculinitySoFragile started trending on September 23rd when users started pitching in their opinions about how society views masculinity. People were bringing up various issues such as the need to have “feminine” and “masculine” versions of products. Razorblades, lip balm, shampoo and other items all do the same job and do not need to be distinguished for each gender yet society feels the need to separate the two. Another point brought up is the overuse of the phrase “no homo” by men who are showing affection towards each other. Men should be able to feel comfortable hugging other men or showing other men they care about them without having to say “no homo” beforehand. Women are very affectionate towards each other openly and there is no gay stigma. Men shouldn’t have to be so afraid of stepping out of their masculine role or behaving even the slightest bit “feminine”. When a man dresses a certain way or dyes his hair he is assumed to be gay, yet aren’t men entitled to expressing themselves just as much as women are? If a woman dresses in masculine clothing such as button up shirts or baggy athletic gear it is considered acceptable but when a man dresses even the slightest bit feminine he is assumed to be gay and/or he is ridiculed for it.
Some felt that the hashtag was meant to attack men and was demeaning while others argued that the hashtag was meant to explain “how to be a man”. Many joined this twitter movement for the sole purpose of highlighting the ridiculous expectations and standards put onto men as well as how this concept of “masculinity” can be harmful. People are clearly aware of this issue of masculinity and gender roles in general considering the responses posted on twitter, yet somehow there has been no movement toward change. It seems as though people push a topic like this from their thoughts, they are stuck in the past, or they accept society as the way it is due to growing up among gender roles. This hashtag is a perfect example of how twitter can be useful in spreading information on controversial issues and how it allows people to see how those around them view a certain topic the same or differently than they do. When people see that they disagree with a friend on a topic it sparks conversation. Even when two people share a same opinion it starts conversation which takes the hashtag from twitter into the real world keeping the debate alive and spreading awareness.This hashtag spread awareness that gender inequality and gender roles don’t only involve women and that this issue is very much so involving both genders.
Katey Padden